Why Leadership Isn't Your Title or Role

A window in your soul

Of all the articles and ideas I have written about in the last 10 years, today is the one I am most convicted about.

It’s easy to believe that your title or role means you’re a leader. But that wouldn’t be the truth. If you take your role seriously because of the responsibility and opportunity it provides, then this week is for you.

Let’s get after it,

I. A job title provides responsibility and an opportunity to lead, but a title isn’t leadership.

What it means:

You aren’t your role, and your title doesn’t automatically make you a leader.

Unfortunately, that’s the opposite of how most managers think. While it’s true that a title comes with responsibility and an opportunity to lead, a title isn’t leadership.

II. The type of leader you are is a window into you soul.

What it means:

Your leadership paints a picture of the work you have put in to develop your:

  • Character – The maturity of the mental and moral qualities that are distinctive to you.

  • Communication skills – The ability to convey messages clearly and foster meaningful connections.

  • Emotional Intelligence – The capacity to channel your emotions to work for you instead of against you.

  • Mindset – The mental perspective that shapes how you approach challenges, growth, success, and failure.

  • Heart for people – The genuine care and empathy that drives you to elevate others

Whether you like it or not, all five reveal themselves over time and are a window into your soul.

III. Teams need strong, courageous, positive, and selfless people who desire the responsibility of leading.

What it means:

Nothing is as difficult as taking responsibility for people’s actions you can’t control and for outcomes that you can only influence. You have to be quick to take the blame when things go wrong and quick to give credit to others when things go right.

The hard truth is that leadership is painful and rewarding at the same time. It is hard with one person and easy with the next. It is a struggle in the short term and rewarding in the long term.

I don’t write that to discourage but to encourage you. The world needs people who know the difficulty of leadership and willingly choose it anyway.

Use your gift,

John Eades

P.S. I am spending the day with leaders at Pinehurst Resort today, helping them Accelerate Leadership. It’s a world-class venue for meetings and, of course, golf! This is your place if you want a place to play, stay, or meet in 2025.

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